I am separated from the boys dad, and one of the biggest things that drove me to do that was the effect his behaviour may have on my children.
I have been living alone with the boys for a year now, and it appears I have maybe damaged them further.
DS2 (who was always my more confident child) has been wetting himself a lot at school & is described as very quiet with litle self confidence. His teacher is vey concerned about him.
Yesterday he had another accident at shool (he is just 5), and told the teacher he was scared that daddy was going to put him in nappies. I had no idea that ex H had used this as a threat, and was very angry.
I have told DS that nobody would ever put him in nappies because he is a big boy, and asked if anything is making him feel sad or worried, and he has said "no"
I feel so upset that damage is still being done to my boys.
They see him regually, and love seeing their dad, but have no idea of the kind of things he is filling their head with when I am not around.
I will of course have words with ex H when I see him next, and explain the concerns school have with DS's emotional well being, but I don't know how much difference it will make.
I just feel so awful, and don't know what else I can do to improve things.
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I've been informed that DS2 has social & emotional concerns in class. His teacher is worried. :-(
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Pinkchampagne · 14/05/2008 12:59
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