Have just re-read How to Talk so kids will listen, and Listen so kids will talk. Have been using some bits over the last year and it does work, so I'm going to be more deliberate and use it more. DH has never read it and I'm also going to find a way to share it with him over the next few weeks.
I have 2 kids - DD 7 and DS 3.
My question is ... I do use time out, and in the book it says you shouldn't. What do you do? Have you found that if you do all the stuff, you don't need to use time out? It would be lovely not to, but find it works, particularly with my DS when he's having tantrum, or has been given warnings and still does something. Gives him time to calm down and find he usually comes out again later. Ocassionally use with DD too, although not much these days - just time to cool down really.
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LadyPenelope · 26/04/2008 05:10
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