First up, Happy New Year mumsnet ! haven't been on for ages as IO'm trying to curb my internet use (phone bill too huge!).
However I really need mumsnet's advice..
Ds - 7 yrs old - has always not liked having his hair cut - we go every 5 or 6 weeks to a very nice but firm no nonsense woman at hairdressers,who cuts his hair very nicely and usually he's fine - fusses a bit,holds his ears and puts up with it - he used to get in a real state when younger, but on the whole it's ok. However,yesterday he got into a real state and was very tearful and genuinely upset - I'm wondering whether it might be anything to do with his having recently been to a hospital appointment where he had blood pressure,temperature etc taken (with the ear thermometer thing) - he got really upset and anxious there, which might be due my own anxiety at the time (we'd gone to an emergency clinic as he had a strange rash with bruising and I was really frightened)
He is now due to go to hospital in a few weeks for a blood test (for this same thing) and I'm dreading it as his last 2 blood test visits were very stressful (The nurse couldn't get enough blood out and I totally messed up by fainting,would you believe !!). My parents took him a few weeks later and they did successfully draw blood, but the sample clotted and it couldn't be used.
Unfortunately my parents now live too far away to help out, but I'm going to go with dh for support ! Does anyone know any good ideas for getting ds calm ? Does anyone else have similar probs ?
Ds has successfully sorted out his own fear of dogs by immersing himself in all things doggy,kind of self-treating, and as soon as he gets home from anything difficult,like a dental visit, he re-enacts the whole thing with his toys- he's quite keen on playing blood tests, so we'll do a bit of that. Also, the nurse at the hospital mentioned asking for the play specialist,which I'd forgotten about..that might be a good idea.
Many thanks in advance for help !
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binker · 08/01/2005 11:30
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