Hi there, this thread sort of stems off another one I started a few days ago about my dd not sleeping in her new toddler bed. After now trying for the third night, I'm convinced that she has suddenly developed a phobia of going to sleep in the dark and of us leaving her room even with the light on.
The reason why I say this is we've put her in a toddler bed and she seems to want to get in it, but the minute we leave the room she gets out getting very upset. The same happens even with the cot now which we moved into the same room. She had never even attempted to get out before xmas, but she is so scared now when we leave that she launches herself out - hurting herself, so we've had no choice but to resort to the bed as its less of a fall!
The problem now is we can only leave the room once she's fallen asleep to a story and left a small lamp on. For the last 2 nights though she's woken about 11 or 12pm and despite the light, still got upset and got out of bed. This then commences the big battle of getting her back to sleep with more stories. Last night it took my dh 2 hours to get her back to sleep and he had to sleep on the floor to get her off. The problem is that after a few hours sleep, she's not as tired and its even more difficult to get her to sleep even when read a story.
I'll also add that I'm expecting my 2nd baby in 8 weeks so hence the transition into a bed. I'm now paranoid that we'll be knackered before the baby even arrives as we'll be up all the time trying to get dd back to sleep. DH is being extremely supportive though and offering to take responsibility - but I feel so guilty as he has a full time job too.
Anyone got any words of advice on how to deal with this? Sorry to waffle on....
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2 year old scared of the dark - how to resolve
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Corky · 30/12/2004 21:05
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