Ds (18 mo) is going through a serious bout of what I assume is separation anxiety and I do mean serious. He's been feeling grotty with a bad cold for the last week or so and was sickly all over Xmas, so has been almost constantly in my arms. He is getting over the cold now, but refuses point blank to be separated from me. He screams like a banshee if I so much as try to put him down, real blood-curdlers, and cries for hours, and it is getting exhausting. I spent half of last night on the sofa as when he woke in the night he went rigid and shrieked every time I tried to put him down in his cot.
I work in the mornings and he is looked after by my mum and dad. He has been refusing to go anywhere near them for days! They are getting pretty upset not to mention the stress of his constant screeching. He will calm down for a bit and then the slightest thing will set him off again. He is being pacified with a constant round of Baby Einstein vids (!!) but obviously that can't go on for too long... Also he is so wound up he isn't eating and hasn't eaten properly for a week now, which is getting worrying. I feel as if my little ds has been replaced by - something...
Is there anything I can do? Sorry, have to go off to work now but any replies would be appreciated!
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Appalling bout of separation anxiety - help!!!!!!
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NoMoomAtTheInn · 28/12/2004 07:45
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