My lovely 6 year old son is v bright, articulate and sensitive. He is energetic, sporty and enthusiastic - sounds a dream, so why do I find him such hard work? He wants to be the centre of attention a lot of the time (Mum, look what i can do), talks incessantly, mostly intelligent conversation and questions, but also throws enormous strops and argues the toss over EVERYTHING. I sat him down tonight and told him his behaviour over the weekend was dreadful (rude, ignoring people etc interspersed with being lovely) - he shouted "I am only 6, not 13 you know" and burst into tears. I couldn't answer that. He is like a teenager trapped in a 6 year old. I praise him lots, try to do special things with him (eg trip to see "Joseph" last week - delightful in the car there and back, behaved abysmally with his friend in there, even saying "I'm having the worst evening of my life"!) I'm finding it a constant battle, and it's so wearing. He does get lots of positive attention, and discipline, but I'm running out of ideas! Anyone else got a highly strung child and found ways of helping them chill out/improve behaviour? NB he is no problem at school, though likes to take the lead.
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