DS has just turned 3. Since he was around 7 months, I've had concerns about him as he tends to do most things pretty late, milestone wise. I have periods of worrying greatly, then periods of thinking he's probably ok. I am more concerned at present than for a long time at the moment. His language is not very good but hard to tell whether he's just shy and awkward or whether there's more to it. He will say something mumbled to myself or dh and if we don't get it, he will then mumble even more or just blank us if asked to repeat. He quite often blanks us when asked a question and is not good at eye contact if we are sat near each other. He is fine if we are across the other side of the room.
He has no real conversation with his peers. I think he wants to but his language simply isn't up to it really. He comes accross as rude and offish which is hard to watch . I do find it hard not to get irritated as at the moment he likes to mimic his 8 month old brother's babble and other immature sounds. He also has an obsession with opening and closing doors and cupbaords (though is easy to distract from this). He knows this winds me up in all fairness so it could be that or something more to it, I just don't know. Home has been a bit stressed recently and the door thing has become much worse (it had improved a lot as was awful about a year ago). DS is very good with numbers and letters, shapes etc. with very little input which makes me think aspergers all the more? Has anyone been in this situation? Not sure who to speak to first- HV, GP or pre-school (they've not mentioned big worries yet and not sure whether to wait and see if they mention anything first). He's been at pre-school for 4 months.
I'm sorry this is such a ramble but any advice would be really appreciated.
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autism/aspergers worries over 3 year old, who should I talk to about it?
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timetodosomething · 02/03/2008 16:12
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