Our DS is driving us mad. A fortnight ago the head at school discussed his behaviour with us, rude, answering back, uncooperative, not concentrating etc. She is an excellent teacher had discussed it with him, read him the riot act, we backed it up at home with withdrawal of fav toy and fav tv programme. He seemed to have got the message.
However this morning I hear it has happened again, the day after he got his privileges back (which were removed for a week) he is exceedingly rude to another teacher and refusing to do his work. He is going to be seen by the head again and will lose his toys etc again and get a telling off at home, but I really don?t know what to do with him. He has to learn to respect authority.
The Head feels its about him pushing the boundaries, perfectly normal but I am aghast that he should be so rude ? he isn?t at home. She also feels that it is because they think he is bright and has got cocky about his ability and has decided that he doesn't need to do anything (am mortified!) which is now backfiring as he is getting behind!
What on earth do I do with him? Could something else be going in in his mind that is causing this?
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DS age 5 attitude problem!
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Baddaughterinlaw · 11/02/2008 10:19
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