My little boy, who is 2.1 years old was playing with his bucket and spade in the sandpit at the local playground this morning. Without warning, he hit a little girl, (who was about 6), on the back of her jacket. Not hard, but that?s not the point is it? I told him off (no hitting!), but the little girl?s mother really went off on one about it. ?That?s very aggressive isn?t it?? she said really snottily.
I said, apologetically, ?I?m sorry, but he is only 2, he didn?t mean anything?. And she replied, ?Well, if he?s only 2, I dread to think what he will be like when he?s 5!? And she went on and on about him having to apologise to her daughter. So, I picked him up and made him say sorry (which he can?t say in English anyway? he?s half French and bilingual), so he kept saying ?pardon, pardon? in his little baby voice, and it just really upset me.
I know he shouldn?t hit ? and I?m teaching him as best I can not to - but did she have to be such a bitch about it? I felt like everyone was judging me. Aaargh - I need to be less sensitive. I know my little boy is a sweetheart and he?s usually very gentle. All toddlers do the random hits, right?
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alilang · 09/02/2008 16:46
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