Sitting here nearly in tears...just looked at my 5 year old DS's contact book from school and apparently this week alone he's (a)hit a child in the face with his lunchbox (b)'refused to work' several times and (c)'shown his genitals' to another little girl. i'm horrified and don't know what to do. all i ever seem to hear from that school is that he's disruptive, fidgety, can't concentrate, etc etc. at his last parent's evening it was a long list of complaints about him (and a couple of catty remarks about how they can never talk to me about it because i work full time and don't pick him up at 3:15...well sorry i have to earn a living!) i can't think of anything positive they've ever said about him, but i don't recognise this child they're describing! i'm really not being all pfb but at home he's chatty, affectionate, thoughtful, lovely with his baby sister, can concentrate for hours on drawing/colouring/lego...the after-school club leader always tells me how bright and well behaved he is there too.
we've had a rough time of it lately to be honest, my partner (not his dad) was abusive to me and very short-tempered with him and i told him to leave last week. i suppose he could be 'acting out' at school. but he's seemed so much happier since my ex left (well, we all have been...)
i spoke to him about it this evening and explained that this behaviour was not acceptable, also stressed what a good boy he is with me and why can't he be the same at school? am worried that it's something to do with the school environment that's bringing out the worst in him.
i'm going to ask for a meeting with the teacher to discuss it but wondered if anyone had experienced anything similar or had any advice on how to deal with the situation?
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DS (5) terrible behaviour at school but lovely at home...help!
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hellsbells76 · 05/02/2008 19:25
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