I am having a ahrd time with my dd 12, and finding her behaviour increasingly unlikeable. She will start to play with ds (6). He might accidentally spit a bit when he talks for example, and like a hot brick he is dropped with a 'Urghh! You're disgusting!! Yuck, urgh urgh' which leaves ds bewildered to say the least, as she started the game. She will also lash out if accidentally hurt, before the other person has even had a chnace to apologise.
She is very quick to say she hates us, door slamming, floucing, all over the tiniest thing. She has just told me she hates me and wishes I would die, in another one of our ructions which escalate from nothing!
I have banned access (in a very calm way) to the pc for a week, as I will not be spoken to like that.
I know its all hormones etc, but surely there is a place for a bit of kindness and tact towards her brothers and a bit of respect towards us as her parents?
How do you treat your pre pubescent daughters without resorting to shouting and hysterics too?
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Hysterical 12 year old dd. Actually make that just 'd'.
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Maidamess · 03/02/2008 18:06
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