She's 19 months.
She's always had a lovely bedtime routine and gone happily to bed after bath, story, cuddle etc at about 7.15.
This is the third night in a row she's 'decided' not to go to bed. When we put her in her cot she screams and hollars. Last night she played happily until about 10.00 and then went down happily.
At the moment she's even howling in protest because we're not letting her out of her bedroom - but DP is in there with her and she has the option of cuddles!
I know many people would say we need to let her cry about it and learn that bedtime is non-negotiable. But we just don't want to. It feels very very wrong to let her cry - yes, even if we go in to reassure her every minute or so.
But I do want her to get a good night's sleep!
I know every one of my friends and family would be strict and make her go to bed whether she wants to or not.
Are there any other parents who would let her get up and play if she really doesn't want to go to bed?
Am doubting myself.
Go on, I can take it.
(But really, no leaving her to cry!)
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Reassure me that it's okay for my toddler not to go to bed
BroccoliSpears · 19/01/2008 20:05
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