My DS1 is nearly 22 months and is so stroppy it's driving me mad. If I tell him he can't have something he picks up whatever is nearest to him (toy, book, glass of water,lunch) and hurls it on the floor. He doesn't seem to care if I tell him off - I try not to raise my voice and just speak firmly but he is never really bothered. I have tried a naughty step/corner but he sits there quite happily then when his time is up comes running to me smiling to kiss and cuddle... he knows the drill! Maybe he is too young for this sort of thing, but how do I make him understand he shouldn't do it. What's even worse is that if we go anywhere fun: playgroup, swings library etc, and he has to get in his pushchair afterwards he basically 'fights' me.. he goes rigid and thrashes with his arms and legs yelling at the top of his voice. It's so embarrassing and hard work that I've had to stop doing activities like this with him. We had another baby in September so I'm aware that he's vying for attention, but this did start before then... DP and I still haven't got over a 1.5hr flight to Nice last June when DS was thrashing so wildly on DP's knee that he headbutted him and bruised his jaw and everything we gave him to pacify him was hurled at force across the plane. Hmm Cornwall this year I think! Do you think I am best just to ignore bad behaviour like this until he grows out of it or is there a clever way to deal with it!? Advice gratefully received!
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