my ds sometimes gets so frustrated when he cant do something or get his own way, which is fair enough but when i go to talk to him about it throws himself to the floor goes puce and issues an ear splitting shriek.
often if i say calm down in my best calm voice it makes it worse, if i see he is getting frustrated and try to step in before the worst it just escalates, ie damp day and he is trying to climb up slide and keeps slipping, i explain why, suggest an alturnative the answer no i want to, he keeps trying and keeps failing getting crosser and crosser becomeing hysterical.
My stock resposne recently has been verbal reassurance, then if he continues a warning he will go to his room to calm down, more often than not he doesn't so i physically remove him as usally he is hysterical and then he screams -very loudly and does come down calm eventually.
I expected this to work and by now this behaviour would be history but it isnt and seems if anything to be stepping up- Help, any tips
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I don't want to and very loud screaming in a four year old
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winkywonkywoo · 03/01/2008 14:29
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