Mine (a boy) has become an absolute horror. Just at the outset I just want to say that he is at school as we are key workers and he doesn’t seem bothered by lockdown/covid etc.
Everything is an argument, he thinks he can bargain with the us. For example:
Me: can you go and get dressed please
Him: Only if I can watch Netflix/YouTube afterwards
Or he will ask for a snack, and the answer is no, dinner will be ready soon. And it’s ‘pleeeeeaase!’ Or he thinks he can negotiate from chocolate down to yoghurts and some fruit, or whatever.
We can’t tell him anything without it becoming an argument. I hear the words ‘can I watch YouTube’ before I open my eyes in the morning. Literally. He starts on the defensive because he knows the answer will be no, and so an argument ensues. Before I’m out of bed.
From school pick up to bedtime is a constant argument. I’m sick of it.
Does anyone have any tips?
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BasinHaircut · 02/02/2021 19:16
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