I know it's near Christmas & kids are excited but I'm really at the end of my tether.. I need some help please.
I have two girls, one 7 & one 5.
We moved to a bigger house 2 years ago so we had more space & so the girls had their own space with their own bedrooms.
The have no respect for the house.
Leave their rubbish everywhere, never tidy up after themselves, no respect with the furniture/house, bedrooms are a complete mess that they now have no room to play, get undress & leave clothes all over the floor...
The list goes on.
I never invite anyone round cause I just can't keep up.
I suffer with a heart condition & also CFS (fibromyalgia) so I suffer badly with fatigue. Every day is a struggle in itself without this added pressure.
The girls know that I don't have the energy like other Mummy's.
The amount of time I've just cried & cried cause I just don't know what to do.
I think they may possibly play that to their advantage by knowing that I haven't got the energy to keep going on & on.
My husband works full time & he is extremely helpful when he comes home but they still don't listen to him or follow the rules.
It's got to the point now where I just don't know what to do.
As a mother I feel like a complete failure.
We've gave them more space but they're just so disrespectful towards it.
They were never like this in our home before.
All I'd like is at the end of the evening my front room to be chilled & relaxing but instead I'm surrounded by their mess, despite repeating myself about them tidying up.
Please don't be nasty - It takes a lot for a Mum I think to ask for help & advise but I genuinely don't know what I need to do to fix this?
Any pointers or tips would be amazing.
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mrsjw17 · 17/12/2020 21:00
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