Strict

[Siritops]

Is it better to be strict to your child?

[Jannt86]

That's such a generalised question. I think where a lot of people struggle (myself included) is being firm but fair and loving. I think consistency and allowing age appropriate autonomy is key

[plumpootle]

No, I don't think it is.

[Mary8076]

It depends on what strict means. I believe the best is a mix of unconditional love, endless displays of affection, understanding and encouragement, along with very clear and consistent rules, boundaries, requests and the corresponding clearly prearranged rewards and punishments.

[Aria999]

Agree with mary8076

I also try not to say no unless I have to (can I put up with this mildly annoying behavior, yes, ok then) but when I say no then that's final.