Right so I imagine this is not uncommon in some 7 yr olds, but it is really quite extreme. If something is bothering him, it seems to manifest itself in irratic and sometime aggressive behaviour. I try to keep calm as I know it's not naughtiness (there's plenty of that too) but if I ask him why he has done something, he will hide under sheets and cry "I don't want to talk about it!" Over and over. We normally get to bottom of it by my providing a multiple choice set of answers until I strike upon what the problem is. This is a small part of a bunch of behaviours which I think stems from a belief that I prefer his older brother. The sense of embarrassment he feels if he gets told off, often leads to him refusing to take part in any activities like bed time story or today his PE class. Both are activities he likes! So then he's even more miserable. Our house is chaos at the moment as we are having an extension built and it's gone really wrong. But now he's started tidying his drawers as if he's in the army!!!! I mean everything is folded in to identical sized squares and he gets upset if anyone messes it up. I really worry this is a coping mechanism for turmoil inside him that I can't get him to articulate! Please help! Am I just worrying for nothing?
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Worried that my 7yr old can't talk about how he feels
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Jhas · 01/12/2020 22:47
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