We put dd in nursery part-time when she was 18 months old. Every day, the only feedback we got was that she was a "good girl". We had a parents evening and the deputy manager told us that they had some concerns. They asked us to attend a meeting with a SENCO rep. Not really knowing what this was about, me and hubby went along expecting them to comment on her speech which was coming along a bit slowly.
This complete stranger who had watched dd for 1/2 a day started talking about dd's speech, her walking, her lack of concentration etc etc etc, the list went on and on. I was absolutely mortified!!! She suggested we go and see a specialist and we then started getting bombarded with letters for appointments nearly every week.
After some thought, we decided not to go down the route of a specialist. Reasons why...
- DD is happy, healthy and well-behaved which is most important.
- DD is only 2.5 yrs and there is plenty of time for progress without labelling her at such an early stage.
- The appointments, assessments and stupid diary systems the "specialists" put in place would cause a lot of stress and upset to everyone.
- I've seen other children with delayed speech.
- Yes, she had bad concentration.....isn't that what 2.5 yr old are SUPPOSED to have??!!
I'm sorry to be going on here but I don't know if I'm over-reacting or if I should hire a nanny now. The nursery say they can't understand anything dd says and that she doesn't listen to any instructions at all. She sounds like a Jeykll and Hyde because she's come leaps and bounds at home. Has anyone had a similar problem? I think dd thrives more on 1-2-2 attention, should I look at putting her with a nanny or am I over-reacting?