DD1 (3.5) has been attending her nursery since the end of September.
It is every morning Mon-Fri for 2.5 hours. They are outside for a good part of the session so lots of great physical play.
I like the nursery facilities staff ethos etc.
DD1 is absolutely shattered at the end of each session to the point of lying on the floor at 3pm until dinner. She has a healthy diet and sleeps 11-12 hours a night.
She has huge dark circles under her eyes from about midday. She will not nap which really is just as well because if she did she then wouldn't sleep until quite late 10pm or about 9pm if we take her swimming post nap lol. She is then even more knackered next day on the very odd time she has had a sleep.
I had a quick chat today with one of the staff because I am considering dropping her days if this doesn't get better. Maybe 3/4 fixed days a week rather than the five.
I was firmly told that this was nod a good idea a rod for my back was mentioned. (like a red rag to a bull that one to an attachment parent like myself - but hey I managed not to charge ).
Apparently in many years of nursery this hasn't been an issue before .
Should I be doing as suggested and getting DD checked out by the GP? She attended playgroup before this three mornings a week 2 hour sessions and was fine once I made the sessions mon, wed fri. When her sessions ere Wed, Thur Fri she was a mess. She concentrates really hard and I think it takes a lot out of her.
Couple of other things mentioned which suggest that DD1 is clearly not being seen in the exalted fashion she should be. At home Dd is desperate to read and write sounding words out to get the first letter trying to write letters and numbers. Apparently she does not do any of that there. Which is ok, I think we can do it at home and she can play there. i suspect I am just irked by her genius not being recognised.
She has also been described as "stubborn", personally I prefer strong willed which I like tbh, i and DH were pushovers and I like that she knows her own mind.
I am at a loss tbh. Not sure how to proceed. It isn't compulsory. Dd does enjoy it she is a great mixer.
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regularwithinvisibilitycloak · 03/10/2007 21:01
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