Since about 7 months old my son has seemed a little different to the vast majority of children I see in the world, now at 20 months old I'm wondering if we need to seek further professional advice or if some of this stuff is actually far more normal that I think....
- hates new indoor places and places he doesn't go often = whole body shaking, sobbing, clambering at me even if I'm holding him. Seems fine if we go somewhere new for a walk outdoors.
- really uncomfortable with a lot of textures, won't go near them, gets very upset when he does...sand, mud, grass barefoot, won't stroke our dogs, hates stuffed toys, squishy foods like muffins/quiches
- generally hates adults! God help anyone stranger who tries to talk to him, he just starts crying
- not a fan of places with lots of noise / people. Shook/sobbed and was absolutely miserable at toddler play class that had soft play with music then group activities. We tried just watching from the side for a while and the instructor was nice enough to bring activity bits to us but he just went hysterical when she came near or tried to talk to him. Swim class became an absolute disaster too
- at home he is incredibly busy, wants to know how everything works, takes things apart, picks up puzzles etc extremely quickly and has an amazing memory. Getting him to sit still for more than a couple of minutes is pretty impossible.
- very resistant to any new foods that weren't introduced within the first 6 months of weaning.
- at 20 months still doesn't form any words fully
Any thoughts would be welcome
Laura
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