Hi, hope some of you have some good advice or similar stories.
My DS is 19 months old and has always been a little fussy about his food ever since he started on solids. Now, however, I feel like the repertoire of foods he will accept has dwindled to about 3 meals.
I've cooked so many delicious meals that have been pushed away in disgust. Now, all i can guarantee he'll eat is fish fingers (although he does happily eat peas or most vegetables with this), scrambled egg, or toast. The only meal he doesn't get fussy about is breakfast - when he'll have weetabix or ready brek or similar and fruit.
When I offer DS any other type of food (and I've tried everything: pasta, cottage pies, fish pies, baked beans, mashed potato, etc etc) he freaks out. Screams and throws tantrum. Sometimes I try the 'if you're not eating this, you're not eating anything' approach but that just seems to make him worse. He gets so upset and grumpy that I now think it's easier to relent, give him a piece of toast and some fruit and get on with the day. However, am I teaching him bad habits this way? My mum said I should just give him what he likes for now and he'll soon get bored and want to try new dishes, rather than turn mealtimes into a battlefield. But on the other hand I worry that I'm just reinforcing his fussy eating habits in letting him have this very limited diet and giving in to his tantrums.
The last thing I want is the stress of mealtimes to start having an effect on his attitude to food.
anyone been in similar situation and have some good tips on how to cope with a fussy eater at this age?
Thanks.
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19 month old nightmare fussy tantrums at mealtimes
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MabelMay · 23/09/2007 21:05
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