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hmm, how to put it? sexual curiosity in 7 yo girls?

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j20baby Sun 23-Sep-07 20:38:10

bfs daughter has been known to rub herself but my dd has not done it up until now, bfs daughter seems to do it in private, my dd doesn't seem too shy about it! she got a vibrating pen off her grandma, and showed me how it tickles if you put it on your tummy, she then put it on her 'front bum' and said it tickled and was nice.

how do i approach it without making her feel like its dirty whilst not really wanting to see her do it?!

fryalot Sun 23-Sep-07 20:44:39


You could always just wait till she starts again and say "most of us go go the bathroom or our bedroom to do stuff like that"

(just bumping for you btw.... how's the labour getting on?)

j20baby Sun 23-Sep-07 20:45:28

thanks squonk.

will email you

lulumama Sun 23-Sep-07 20:45:30

just tell her that , yes it feels nice, but that sort of thing is for private time....

are you in labour ?!?!?!

fryalot Sun 23-Sep-07 20:46:10

might have known the word "labour" would get everyone rushing to this thread


lulumama Sun 23-Sep-07 20:47:35

not everyone, just meeeeeee!!

FrannyandZooey Sun 23-Sep-07 20:47:45

Yes just say something like "yes it feels nice to touch yourself there doesn't it? It's fine to do that, but it's something private, so save it for when you are in your room on your own."

j20baby Sun 23-Sep-07 20:48:20

thanks lula, thats what i thought, tell her to sod off to her room to do it!

nope not that i know of! yet

kitsandbits Sun 23-Sep-07 20:48:24

awww are you in labour???


j20baby Sun 23-Sep-07 20:48:52

thanks too F+Z

KaySamuels Sun 23-Sep-07 20:48:57

Hi J20 - hope you are ok, keep us posted won't you!? If you need anything just holler.
x smile

Re dd I second the bathroom/bedroom lin next time! grin

j20baby Sun 23-Sep-07 20:49:20


KaySamuels Sun 23-Sep-07 20:49:45

aah ds distracted me whilst typing, see you not started off yet! grin

fryalot Sun 23-Sep-07 20:50:11

sorry - twas just squonky having a bit of fun. J20 is NOT in labour (well, she might be, but if she is she hasn't told me) She's just quite due

sorry J20 blush

<<<goes off to get hairshirt and sackcloth and ashes>>>

j20baby Sun 23-Sep-07 20:50:27

thanks kay.

ooh i wish i was in labour the amount of people that have come on my thread, i bet when i do you'll all be off having real lives! wink

lulumama Sun 23-Sep-07 20:50:50

<<removes louladoula badge >>

as you were, ladies ....

j20baby Sun 23-Sep-07 20:54:12

naughty Squonk!
saying that, my friend selfishly went on hol today and text me to say he was getting on the plane, so i text back saying 'in labour' ha! that'll teach the selfish git to go on holiday across my due date!

fryalot Sun 23-Sep-07 20:56:33

<<<suitably chastened>>>

am going to switch puter off and spend some time with my family.... shock

Will get email in the morning, J20 - if you want me before then, text me.

j20baby Sun 23-Sep-07 20:57:47

oh how boring!wink

ok, am off to bed now anyway

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