I have recently had a baby (6 weeks ago) and my Daughter, who is nearly 3, is very jealous of her.
She was really excited when we first brought her home but the excitement has quickly faded away.
She is rough with her, tries to hit/bite/throw things at her. She pretends to like her and says how funny she is and how lovely she is, but you can tell in her tone that she definitely doesn't feel that way. She has thrown tantrums about everything since she was born.
As my partner is off work, she is still getting lots of attention from both of us. I play with her alone for a few hours each day so that she has my undivided attention, but it's just never enough. She will ask me to play with her the entire day. She didn't used to do this prior to the baby.
I understand she is hurting, but I really don't know the best way to deal with this. I currently tell her off if she tries to hit her sister but have read online that isn't the best thing to do. Has anyone got any experience of this and what they did to make things better.
I wish I had more time to dedicate to her but in between feeding the baby, trying to eat, drink, change everyone's nappies, get everyone dressed etc there just isn't that much time. Partner will be going back to work in a few weeks and I will have even less time to dedicate to her.
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Jealous toddler
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daisy112 · 05/05/2020 07:44
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