DD is 20m and has always been shy, and 'clingy' to me and DH. She has a good bond with both of us and if we were both around, she would usually have a slight preference for DH over me.
About 3 months ago she suddenly developed an intense preferance for me over DH. If I'm out, she is absolutely fine with him. But if I am in, she HAS to be with me. She never stays in one room when playing and she needs to be with her by her side at every given moment. Otherwise she yells and cries etc. I can't tell if it's genuinely distress or just cos she's not getting her own way. She cries and shouts no and bats DH away if he tries to come near her/hold her when I'm around.
Is this just a phase that they go through? Am I best off doing what she needs to feel secure ie stay with her wherever possible) or better off teaching her sometimes she can't always be with me etc? E.g. atm DH is doing almost all the cooking because if I go in the kitchen and cook tea she screams and bangs on the door for 20+ minutes.
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Clingy 20m old
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MeadowHay · 15/02/2020 21:31
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