Hi
Some of you seen my post " should I be paranoid or am I being paranoid"
My son who I have suspected of Autism for the last year but his initial assessment with Salt (13months)concluded he had no social impairment he had displayed 3 point gaze social referencing. Then nursery raised some concerned in Oct (19 months)but in Nov at parents evening his key worker took her initial assessment back. we also took him privately to a develop pead at the time the nursery raised theor concern who in conclusion said at the time he did not meet the criteria for referral and suggested return at 2.5 years. However my wife and I continue to have our doubts.
In all other respects he ticks a lot of NT boxes, imaginative play including role play with figures, imaginative eating with toy food , points to requests, points to share, expressive language increasing every day, Loves to sing songs like wheels on the bus, bingo and dances along to baby shark,nursery says he joins in with circle time and that he understands humour well. No Motorskills issues infact fine skills were advanced.
However my doubts surround a couple of issues. Firstly pointing he has been pointing prolifically sine 16/17 mnths before that sporadically . when he points to share he rarely looks back i'd say only a handful of times from what I have observed since he started pointing. otherwise 3 point gaze shift at other times during play and dinner time is a lot more common. For example this morning pointed up in the sky to a plane and said plane when he was in my arms but did not look back at me but kept staring at the plane. Is there anything to worry about this or are my concerns unfounded, does the fact that he has displayed the triadic gaze on occasion give me reassurance it's ok. @MapLand you have expressed in a post that your son also pointed but went on to be dx with ASC could you eloborate whether your son pointed to share or request and when did he start pointing.
Lastly receptive language comprehension , my son is going to be 2 in FEB and still his comprehension is inconsistent. back in oct my wife an I laid out different item on the carpet and requested him to bring us each item individually when we named them he subsequently did it 100% and this gave me huge releif that there was some comprehension. But recently when we ask him he ignores these requests. However recently we were sitting with the family I asked him to name the family members "where is? " and he pointed at the family memebers naming them also will give you a kiss when requested will tidy up if you ask him but comparing to the comprehension of other 2 year olds I feel he is well behind as he doesnt understand most of what we say to him. Today asked him if he wanted to watch peppa or bam bam he said peppa but not sure if this is a fluke and whether he actually understood the question. Is his comprehension what it should be?
Response to names there are weeks when his response are consistent but then there are phases when his response is terrible.
Sorry for the long post but I'm confused and anxious need people to talk to about this. Been thinking abut it more often in light of his 2nd birthday.
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Triadic gaze when pointing and receptive language
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Arhumuk · 14/01/2020 20:27
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