Terrible twos were nothing, since turning 3 my ds has been horrendous.
-won't get dressed in the morning
-won't wee in potty before we go down for breakfast
-won't do any reasonable request I.e finding shoes or putting coat on
-won't eat dinner
-wants to eat dinner in a different room
-won't get in the bath / out the bath
-kicks and hits me whilst trying to dress/undress him
-nothing is ever good enough i.e. Get him a snack but then wants another one or a different one.
-won't stay in bed if he wakes in the night and frequent early starts.
The list is endless. Everything I try is met with opposition. I've tried being gentle and saying things like 'I know it makes you sad when we have to get out the bath but you can choose a book and we can cuddle together once your in your pjs'. I've tried threatening with taking toys/privileges away. His response to it all is screaming, tears and lashing out.
I'm regularly only getting 5 hours sleep so my patience is wearing very thin and to be perfectly honest I don't enjoy his company and dread weekends or spending time with him. I feel like I tiptoe around him which is ridiculous as he's 3!
Any advice on how to handle such an unruly horrible child would be appreciated. Also advice on how to cope myself as I feel as if it's affecting my mental health as I'm permanently miserable.
Thanks!
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Coping with a defiant 3 year old
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Muppet7410 · 20/10/2019 08:04
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