My 22 mo DD is genuinely a delight most of the time, she loves to be helpful and if left to her own devices recently can often be found tidying up her toys (which is great as I’m in third trimester and struggling to get down on the floor). However, when she’s tired or really excited, her behaviour is not always great, as is to be expected. If she’s really tired she will hit or head butt me and DH (and sometimes her elderly granny) in the face. She is always told no, sometimes explained ‘that hurts mummy/daddy’, and then attention redirected. So far this has not stopped it reoccurring. Obviously DH and I are more resilient than Granny! We deal with it at Granny’s house by taking her off Granny’s knee. Also, she will wilfully get all her toys/books and throw them around the room/throw food and crockery off her high chair. If she does this when she is excited and not tired I explain she’s made a mess and ask her to clean it up, which she does. If she is tired this does not work so I just remove her from the situation. Should I be doing anything more to stop these behaviours or do I just wait until she’s older to have a little bit more understanding? She is very verbal and can understand when other people are sad or hurt.
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Should this behaviour have consequences? 22 month old
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bigshiplittleboat · 17/10/2019 22:46
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