Hi there
My 4 year old boy is THAT child. The one who tries to get the attention of others at school by making weird sounds,shouting..overall being weird. It looks like he is performing to get attention/make friends but the other kids do not react to it and look at him, thinking "what's wrong with him?"..and the look on their parents face is the same!
When we take him to football class, his only interest is to play with his first ever friend(who is 6 months older than him)and not play football or listen to the coach's instructions.However his "best friend" wants to play and my son is becoming the annoying distraction for him. I can also see it on the dad's face and the comment last time:"maybe he's just not interested in football"...in other words "please stop bringing your kid to football he's a wild child who distracts mine".Which i can understand but it's hard to hear.
He's the tallest of his class but youngest in age(born in August)so i wonder if it is a maturity issue but other kids of the same age(NCT group) do not behave like this.They are calm,listen to the parents and don't try to perform. It is making my wife and I very distressed and somewhat powerless.Not only because of the look of parents and other kids but because we feel like he is going to be put aside and won't make friends.
Help please help!!
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4 year old is the clown/wild child amongst others.Help!
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avalon60 · 07/09/2019 20:22
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