I spend some time with a friend and her family who live nearby, my DS is 18 months and her daughter is about 9 months older.
The big picture is that they generally play really well together and seem to love hanging out: they chatter away and giggle and run around together. My friend's little girl is a sweet and intelligent girl, she does come up and give my DS big hugs (some of which he accepts more willingly than others!)
However the slight concern for me is that my friend's daughter is a bit of a pusher. We spent the weekend with them and she pushed my son over about 8 times, including into a hedge which scratched his face. Each time he gets upset for a few minutes but then is fine and goes back to playing with her of his own volition (I wouldn't force him). My friend does address it with a telling off, naughty step and apology so I'm not criticising her at all. I feel a bit sorry for her because she's very apologetic to me so I just keep saying, it doesn't matter, it's just her age (and comfort my son anyway). She usually pushes him when he tries to pick up a toy she wants or doesn't or what she tells him to do (whether it's his toys or hers!).
But please can I get some reassurance that my instincts are right, that this is a stage that will pass and shouldn't mean we stay away from this family? My friend is undergoing some serious problems at the minute which aren't her fault but I wonder if her daughter might be acting out a little bit because of it- so trying to be sympathetic.
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Another child pushing my child over!
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MissB83 · 02/09/2019 07:41
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