Advice needed!
For about a year now I’ve been undergoing a constant battle with my OH about him undermining my parenting infront of our little girl. For example the other night I was putting her to bed and she asked for something to eat, I had said no because she didn’t eat all her dinner (something else we are battling with as she won’t eat a proper dinner but wants to eat junk) so trying to put a stop to it I said that if she had eaten all of her dinner then she wouldn’t be hungry at bedtime. OH then came in and said why can’t she just have a biscuit, completely throwing out any authority I have out of the window! She wasn’t even hungry, she just wanted to delay the going to bed process! So Oh gave her a biscuit!! Even though I’d said no! I was so angry I could have cried! This happens now and again and I try to explain to my OH that when he does that to me then it shows our daughter that she doesn’t have to ask me or listen to me as she knows daddy will probably say yes! I feel like this is having an affect on her in normal day to day life as she hardly listens to a word I say. I feel like I have no authority, I try to be reasonable with her but I do believe that a parent should be the parent and should have authority over the child.
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Mummy says no Daddy says yes!
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Weeze89 · 05/08/2019 14:59
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