I can’t believe I’m the only one who has to deal with this but I certainly feel like I’m the only one amongst my friends.
My six-year-old is nearly 7 and her angry emotional outbursts are becoming worse. The thing I find so hard to deal with is how rude she is to me: the backchat, the rude words (she thinks they’re really rude but they are just minor words, but still, she’s trying to hurt me), her snarling face - and regularly telling me she doesn’t care about me anymore sometimes she says she hates me.
I’ve tried reward charts like her four-year-old brother has, but she just gets upset when she says he’s got more stickers than her. And it doesn’t change her behaviour. She is often very sorry an hour or two later but it happens again the next day.
I guess the main problem is I can’t stay calm any more I am at my wits end and there is nothing that I can take away from her that she cares about. I’ve banned her from sweets, television, parties.... she just says she doesn’t care anyway.
Half the time she’s lovely the other half I wonder what I’ve done to create such a vicious child.
There is a chance she might have ADHD but it’s not been diagnosed we have just started the process.
I just want a happy family life 😥😥
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Bad attitude from my 6 yr old is breaking me
bunnyone · 05/07/2019 09:42
freespirit333 · 28/02/2024 21:16
So sorry to read your update OP as that sounds really difficult. You haven’t failed her.
Would it be worth at least trialing medication? My DH also has diagnosed ADHD and medication has been life changing for him. We’re looking to medicate DS on school days at least.
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