Should I be concerned?
When I collected my little one - just turned two -from nursery today she had several deep scratches on both sides of her face close to her eye. Her little face looked quite swollen and sore.
The young girl who handed her over said her face had been grabbed over a disputed toy and could I sign the incident report to say I'd been advised.
I said I was really concerned and wanted to speak to the manager as this isn't the first time I've had to sign an incident report about scratches to her face which I've put down to kids being kids up till now but this time it seemed so much more well brutal.
I understand that the nursery can't tell me which child it was but I asked my little one as I had my suspicions and she confirmed them telling me it was her little friend. The nursery manager didn't say yes directly but kind of confirmed it by saying they were playing together 5 mins later. They usually adore each other but are very close with one another to the exclusion of other children.
The nursery have said she plays with everyone when her little friend isn't there.
I don't know if it were the same child on previous occasions but this is the third report I've had to sign since christmas. Should I be worried? Should I change her days and so she mixes with other kids? I don't want to socially engineer her friendships if she's happy but I do want her to be safe and mix with other children .
My OH said we should be teaching her to give as good as she gets or she'll be walked all over but do two wrongs make a right the, is that the message I want to send her - just not sure?
I know I'm probably being over dramatic but it was a horrible shock to see her looking like that.
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rbmilliner · 12/06/2019 07:37
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