I have posted before on this subject, but as DS gets older and still doesn't copy me I'm starting to get a bit concerned. He's 9 months old and is in good general health. But here are the things that worry me: he doesn't cry when left with strangers and can't see me (he is quieter and shyer but not distressed); he doesn't wave or clap; he doesn't cry when you take a toy away from him; he doesn't copy noises or expressions (I have thought he has before but those times are so isolated I'm ruling them out as coincidence). On the plus side, he is smiley and affectionate and responds well to cuddles; DH and I can get him to laugh easily with tickles/funny faces and noises; he does seem to copy in other ways, eg, will touch what I touch in a book about 50% of the time; he will look at DH when I ask 'Where's Dad?'. I guess what I would love to know is whether the copying that he does do means I shouldn't worry about the lack of verbal copying and gestures? I'm sorry if I sound paranoid and neurotic! I'm starting to get a bit obsessive now, especially comparing him to other babies, who I'm starting to avoid, as they all seem to be so super-advanced comapred to DS! Thank you in advance for any advice.
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Please reassure me about 9 month old not copying me etc!
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blob2be · 18/07/2007 21:02
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