Hello
My 9yo DS has been taking food without asking. I'm not sure how much or how often. As far as I know it's usually fairly harmless stuff like a handful of raisins when he's passing the jar, a sneaky corner of chocolate, cherry tomatoes from the fridge...
But this morning his little sister told me that she caught him eating sweets in bed at 5am. I asked him about it and he denied it. I didn't really believe him and went up to his room. Lifted the pillow and found a little pile of sweet wrappers. I asked him again and he admitted he'd taken a little bag of sweets this morning because he'd woken up STARVING (so much so his tummy was hurting). He insisted the other wrappers were innocent - taken out of his pockets after being allowed a sweet after tea.
I had a little chat to him about how it isn't ok to eat sweets in bed, isn't ok to lie and isn't ok to sneakily help himself to sweets that are supposed to be shared. He got really upset.
I don't know how to deal with this. I wouldn't worry so much, but he's becoming chubby around the waist and I don't think this is really an isolated incident.
In terms of meals and openly consumed snacks he eats almost exactly the same as his sister, who is 3 years younger and really skinny. He doesn't seem to have an off switch though and has been known to make himself ill from over-eating.
The sweets he helped himself to last night were leftover from Christmas. Whenever DC are given sweets (Christmas, Easter, parties, Halloween etc.) we put them in a tin and they share them - usually allowing them to choose something each after tea. I'm not controlling or obsessive about foods. We usually have biscuits or crisps in the house. They are allowed a biscuit or 2 if someone pops round for a cuppa and get crisps a few times a week in their packed lunches.
I thought that allowing treats to be a normal part of life was the best approach, but now I'm not so sure.
Any suggestions or advice?
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ForFrithsSake · 28/03/2019 11:09
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