My beautiful daughter has left the building it would seem. She has always been strong willed and prone to the odd trantrum, but I'm talking one every two weeks or so...this has changed in the last 3 weeks.
IF the wind blows in the wrong direction she absolutely loses the plot. This morning she was painting a picture and started painting her hands instead and I said 'don't do that sweetheart', and she started a melt down that lasted just over 2.5 hours...I ended up crying my eyes out (a first since she was born)but she just stood in front of me stamping her feet screaming her lungs out. I can't begin to tell you how absolutely horrific these tantrums are, to the point mum is saying I must take her to the doctor for tests as she's not normal...of course that isn't going to happen as I don't think there is anything 'wrong' with her as such, but I just don't know what to do. These are happening two or three times a day at the moment...but me and hubby went away for the weekend to get away from it all and left an aunty and granny in charge and she slept through the night (which she doesn't do with us) and never once had a tantrum, not once, she was an angel.
I know it is a battle of wits and she's trying to control us, but I don't actually know how to stop it. Today was unusual in that I cried myself, but normally I walk away from her and pick up a magazine and let her get on with it...did this on Friday and it lasted over 90 minutes.
She is an angel at nursrey (2 days a week) and play group, basically with anyone, but me and hubby are lucky to get an hour of her being good before she deteriorates.
We have sticker charts which work some of hte time, but if we threaten to tak any stickers off, she removes them herself. If we say she wont' be able to have her favourite teddy, she goes and brings it to us...no tv, she turns it off herself...she's like a teenager at the age of 2.5.
Is this just a phase? Is this the terrible twos? Should I take her to a psychologist? Should I get committed?
Any ideas?
Joe
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I CAN'T COPE - 2.5year old tantrums are lasting nearly 3 hours
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artyjoe · 09/07/2007 10:32
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