DD hit 9 month mark yesterday. HV came to to do the ASQ (Ages & Stages Questionnaire aimed at 9-12 month olds) and we ended up in the grey/black zone under most headings. HV was very kind about it but did seem concerned. She'll come back to reassess in a couple of months.
I'm trying to tell myself not to worry as we were right at the earliest stage of doing this questionnaire but her concern has stuck with me and I've flipped from being proud of how well we're coping as first time parents, to a really depressed mess. DD seems so happy and healthy and these questions were, to me, like something from a different era, contradicting everything I hear about "babies all develop differently" etc. and I didn't know I was meant to be 'teaching' DD to do things like wave, speak, point etc. I ignorantly and stupidly thought babies just sort of gradually pick up on these things over time?
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I thought we were doing ok but HV has made me feel crap
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TheRhythmlessMan · 05/03/2019 07:51
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