This morning a friend of mine told me that her ds is apparently being bullied by another boy at the preschool. Her ds is good friends with my ds and therefore we chat quite a lot. Obviously I am sympathetic to this, but the thing is, the boy who is apparently bullying her ds is my cousin?s child.
This little boy has been through quite a lot, my cousin and his partner split about a year ago, and within a couple of weeks she had started seeing someone else and apparently felt no need to wait to introduce him to her ds, as within weeks of the split, he had told my aunt that he?d been frightened of the thunder and had had to ?get into bed with mummy and xxx?.
My cousin?s ex was very blasay about the split, and said that her ds wasn?t upset by it at all and never even asked why they?d moved into a different house, and became very defensive if anyone suggested that any changes to his behaviour were as a result of her and his dad splitting. She also told me within weeks of splitting with my cousin that her ds had said he wanted her and her new partner to get married and have a baby together. She and the new partner split at Christmas so as far as I?m aware she is now on her own, but I don?t really see her now as she is working and someone else drops off her ds.
I?m not that close to my cousin but I do see him once a week when he drops off/picks up his ds from preschool.
Thing is, I?m not sure whether the preschool will bring up the fact that this other mum has made this alagation, and even if they do, I?m not sure his ex will tell him about it.
So do I tell him? And if so how does one go about it? Or should I stay out of it?
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would you tell a family member if their child had been accused of bullying?
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wannaBe · 05/07/2007 15:43
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