He won't do anything involving a group, really.
If he WILL his behaviour is often utterly OTT, running around madly and showing off and so on.
He is fine and lovely with kids he knows well, MUCH better still with adults he knows well.
I am sad about this. It means he is missing out on stuff. Eg he is bloody good at football. I thought it would be a real confidence boost for him to go and do very low key "lessons" (its bascially about 10 kids playing football with a very nice young man). I sit 10 feet away and WATCH fgs.
But now he has decided he doesn't want to do it anymore because some of the boys in the group have changed.
I am actually getting bloody impatient with him, if I am honest. I KNOW I shouldn't, and am trying not to show it, but he won't do anything that puts him in an unfamiliar social situation. I am a bit worried because his father is incredibly shy, but I am not and its me he spends most of his time with.
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DS (nearly 4) won't participate in stuff and is shy. Have I ballsed up somewhere?
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fillyjonk · 29/06/2007 19:22
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