I feel awful for even thinking this, never mind writing it down but I'm struggling to cope with my 6 month old. He wakes hourly in the night and is extremely irritable in the day. Apologies for the long post.
He is a beautiful boy, his smiles are amazing and his laugh even more so but I see these so rarely and have to work so so hard to keep him happy. He's not really crying (although sometimes it does escalate) rather moaning and fussing. I love him and have wanted a little one for so long. I feel so ungrateful to be saying this but I'm just struggling. People keep asking me if I think it's postnatal depression, I really don't think it is. I'm just exhausted and I'm not myself (which I hate).
I feel like we've tried everything...we've been helping his bowels move incase he's a little constipated, we've been trying to help him settle himself to sleep, we've started weaning (which everyone is convinced is the answer) but he often refuses the food. We had such a tricky start with the breastfeeding as it was painful for about 4 months and I'm so proud to have overcome this but I just feel like I've been robbed of a happy 6 months with my baby and time is ticking away.!
I'm trying so hard to not compare myself to others and to give myself a break but I am wiped out and it's hard to look at others who's babies all seem happy and content. I even struggle to take baby out out of fear of him crying. He hates the pram and car seat unless going to sleep. He hates sleep, he fights his naps and his bedtime. He did have one night recently where he only woke 3 times but his sleeping has been worse since then. He also wakes at 5 and doesn't want to go to sleep. He is ill with a cold at the moment which I know is making him upset so I'm trying to give him lots of love. Just hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Just hoping to hear how and if things get better I guess. Also hoping to hear I'm not alone as I've never ever felt so lonely.
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Struggling with 6 month old
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mummaroo88 · 12/01/2019 10:53
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