So I opted out of health visiting services as I find them stressful and intrusive (though in the letter I simply said it was inconvenient for me to see the HV at home due to my busy schedule now I was back at work - which is true) (yet to hear back from HV) and as 8 month review for DS was coming up I phoned up the doctor surgery and made an appointment for his review with the HV there. The receptionist sounded uncertain but made the appointment - only to be called back the next day saying that I should contact the HV by phone as she had never heard of those kind of reviews being done at the dr surgery and it was a vaccination clinic only. Basically she didn’t know what to do with me so I was to contact the HV to find out where I could go for that kind of appointment. What should I do now? Wait for the HV to respond to my opt out letter (I sent it a week before Xmas so I’m not too surprised at the delay). But the thing is, with my son’s 8 month review coming up I don’t want to be seen as avoiding him getting seen in case it looks like I’m trying to hide something.
I feel like I am being shoved towards speaking to the HV in person so she can talk me out of this and being socially anxious I feel like I’m creating a huge fuss and drawing attention to us whereas everyone I’ve asked advice for on forums online says it’s a simple case of opting out and then attending clinics for reviews and weighings etc and not to contact HV by phone but keep everything in writing!
What’s the best step to take? PS I am in Scotland
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BillywigStings · 08/01/2019 14:57
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