Need some reassurance here, bear with me it's a long one...
Took ds to a mum and baby pool session when he was 6 months old. He spent the entire 6 weeks clinging onto various parts of me, my hair and my swimming cozzie. He relaxed slightly when chasing a ball!
If DH and I go, he's clingy at first and then relaxes and seems to quite enjoy it.
I booked water babies to try and build his confidence and the first session was yesterday. The same thing happened, clingy and tears even. I thought he didn't like the first sessions coz the pool was cool - the water babies one is 35 degrees.
Do I persevere, as the water babies lady advises (she puts it down to separation anxiety which babies his age can get, but he's been the same for 5 months now!) or should I give up and try again in a year or so?
I'm worried that if I carry on he'll just end up with a phobia of any water that's not his bath (which he loves btw) and also, it's upsetting me. But I also think it's important he has confidence in the water and knows how to keep himself safe.
Anyone else been in a similar position?
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Swimming - will my ds EVER enjoy it?????
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Ali5 · 21/06/2007 11:43
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