Sorry for the weird title, I don't know how else to describe it. My super happy and bubbly 27 month old is a complete nightmare at having anything done.
- Teeth brushed
- Hair brushed
- Hair tied up
- Nails trimmed
She has always been this way - ever since she was old enough to know something was happening but she is definitely getting worse. She gets herself worked up into a complete state of genuine and quite distressing upset - which ends the moment we stop whatever we're trying to do.
We are trying role play; letting her use the brushes/clippers on teddy etc, we're trying letting her do our hair and pretend to do our nails, and also give her the brush to do her own hair etc. We've got a friend coming over with their toddler who's going to do her DD's hair and nails while she's over as a bit of positive reenforcement.
My DD's hair is getting very long and is starting to get tangled, which is making brushing necessary and even more traumatic. Her toe nails are a disgrace and really need cutting. Ideally, we'd like to get her hair cut shorter to avoid the brushing until she's old enough to rationalise with. But, of course, having a hair cut would be a very distressing experience for everyone involved!
She's a little speech delayed and so having a conversation with her about what is happening, or going to happen, is not really successful yet as she just doesn't understand. `
Does anyone have any advice, experience or suggestions on how we might be able to help her (and us!) with this?