6 year old DS is demonstrating some very challenging behaviour at the moment, and for the last 6-12 months we've been struggling with him.
He is bright and doing well at school (yr 2), is sociable, behaves for grandparents and with friends.
He is also an anxious perfectionist and quite rigid in his thinking.
About 75% of the time he is fine, and when I'm at the top of my parenting game I can often manage to deflect an approaching meltdown.
However I'm 37 weeks pregnant and exhausted.
When he gets into a meltdown, maybe 4 or 5 times a week, he is an absolute nightmare. He's picked up horrendous language from his best friend at school (who is a really bad influence - not blaming the friend because DS is responsible for his own behaviour, but it is relevant) so he calls us fat fucking idiot, fat cow etc, hissing, spitting, hitting, breaking things.
I think (hope) this is within the realms of normal behaviour but I'm a bit terrified that it will carry on forever and he'll become uncontrollable as an older boy.
If you've been through this, is there light at the end?
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If you had a difficult 6 year old, did it get any easier?
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wejammin · 07/10/2018 21:38
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