I need some advice about my son, he is very hard work, he is loud and can come across quite rude sometimes as he just says what is on his mind, he is very impulsive with a do now think later attitude and doesn't seem to think anything through or understand consequences of his actions.
I worry about him daily because he can't focus either, he has just started swimming lessons and both times the teacher has said he needs to focus more, I have spoken to him but he just can't seem to help himself, while the teacher is talking he's got his back to him looking at something else etc and then doesn't know what he is meant to be doing. School have also said the same, he will shout out and interrupt, his writing isn't great because he can't sit still and focus on it. He also does piano and I can hear him just chatting away he never stops!
He is very bright but lacks common sense if that makes sense? You have to ask him to do things a few times and even then he may not have paid attention to it all. He is very in your face, no stranger danger and also does silly things sometimes without thinking. A couple of days ago he got a pole from the goal post and hit his sisters playhouse plastic door, not just once but three times enough to crack and break a part out of the plastic window. He doesn't know why he did this, was upset when told off but in another few days will most likely go on to do something similar again... the time before he was playing mummies and babies with his sister upstairs and actually snuck down and got a nappy put it on, weed in it and left it in the bathroom. He didn't understand why it was wrong he was taking it at literal value of changing his nappy etc.
We have tried various ways of dealing with his behaviour but it's in one ear out the other, we've done reward charts, positive parenting when he gets things right, role play, shouting at him, being disappointed, time out, confiscating technology and nothing helps.
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6 year old DS just can't focus
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crazymumofthree · 19/06/2018 13:50
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