Feeling so sad here this evening I'm after your thoughts ladies.
DD just turned 4 has been increasingly difficult over the last 6-9months...generally testing boundaries, not listening, repeatedly doing things she knows not to do (such as use sofa as trampoline, throw heavy wooden toys etc). I'm so sick of 'shouting' at her all the time it's getting me down...and possibly her?? This 2 week break from school has been in all honesty horrendous. It feels as tho she does naughty things for attention? Where am I going wrong? Our relationship isn't good anymore and she asks when dad is home from work constantly and looks thrilled when I tell her I am at work the next day etc 😢 She has also developed this strange little cough that she does all the time...almost like a nervous habit???
I've been doing some googling....is it as obvious as ignore the bad and praise the good? I'm really getting worried all my shouting has negatively impacted her and I need a new strategy to turn things around quick. She starts school this Sept.
I should add that nursery are having the same issues with not listening and following tasks when asked to (such as tidying up, get coat/shoes on etc)
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4 year old naughty or attention seeking?
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northerncry · 15/04/2018 20:03
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