Hi,
How did our parents, and previous generations get children to sit nicely during meals and family visits etc?
Just had lunch at PILs - family visiting. On the whole my kids (4 & 20 months) did well. Ate most of their meal etc. There was a bit of getting up from table, particularly 20 month as he was sat on a small stool which was a bit of a novelty and a small amount of mess.
Anyway, MIL made a comment today that her children (my dh & his brother) sat nicely from a very young age. She said her parents weren't as relaxed as her and would have asked them all to leave if meals were chaos. I asked her directly how she did it, what did parents do differently then and her only answer was the 'culture was different, children had to be quiet'. But how?
The last meal we had there (Easter Sunday) was a disaster, 4 year old being very silly l, drink spilt, toddler not really eating and general mess / chaos so I think that was still fresh in her mind as today they were pretty good.
She does have a habit of stating how her children slept through from 6 weeks, always ate beautifully, never fought etc but can never give any actual advice on how she never gives an tips.
Anyway, just interested
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Babytalkobsession · 04/04/2018 15:05
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