So ons Friday evening my daughter 7 came up to me and asked that we have a talk. We have a strong bond and she comes to me about almost everything I just hope when she is a Teen we can still have this amazing bond. All ladylike she sat down on the sofa and started talking to me about sex "she calls it making out" I was stunned.
I asked her what does she think sex "making out" is. She said when boys and girls kiss without clothes on. I asked her where did she here it?
She replied, On TV and then I saw mommy and daddy. (Just to clarify we went to visit my parents and in the farm house there is a bedroom connecting to another bedroom with just a arch. That's where we slept. Our children on one side and us on the other. After a family reunion me and my husband had slightly drank to much.... "my kids where with my mother so they were safe" We went to bed at about 01:00 in the morning and we thought she was sleeping. She apparently woke up because the bed made noises" FML
parent fail!
So after she poured her heart out and all her concerns.
I calmly spoke to her on a age appropriate level. And said that God created a special gift called sex "making out" for married moms and dads. It is really special and only married people do it. I told her that it is a secret and that she should not tell other children about it because then there parents will be sad that they could not tell there kids about the special gift God sends us when we are older and married.
She then came up and Pinky swore that she will not tell anyone. In our house the pinky is the biggest commitment ever and if you break the pinky you have broken the trust.
I have experienced it when I make a promise to take her to the Zoo once and that day it was raining she was heartbroken. She never made me forget and I had to earn her trust back after along struggle.
Note to self- WE LEARNED A VALUABLE LESSON.
Did I handle the situation correctly?
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7 Year old Talking about sex!
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Jenny221 · 25/03/2018 08:08
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