Thank you for the advice, I will take that on board. What do we do with his willy? Does it need to be held and does his foreskin need to be pulled back. Does he wipe or shake after it? Having never had a willy, I’m clueless!
I hated the day my son wanted to stand to wee. Can’t remember his age maybe 4-5 but he’s now 6 and still wees everywhere. No matter how many times I remind him to hold it still, lift the lid, watch his wee he will wee on the seat, the wall, the floor. Everywhere.
I walked past him the other day and he was looking at the sky whilst weeing on the floor. I told him anymore and he’ll be forced to sit .
I’m sure he can go into the cubicle at school if he doesn’t want to stand. I wouldn’t worry.
My 31 year old DP sits to pee unless he has to use a urinal. It's brill, but it does come as a shock when I visit home (stepdad and two younger brothers can never remember to put the seat back down!)
Nurseries/schools often have non-segregated facilities for the first couple of years, so all kids end up using a cubicle. By the time it's mostly urinals at school, he might've decided he likes to stand up, or that he'll always use the cubical. His choice, really.