I need a rant! And hopefully some support. I’ve got two boys (age 3 and 1) and love them to bits. BUT I did really want a girl second time round so I’m a bit sensitive to gender comments. Several times a week (no lie) I get negative comments about having two boys: how much hard work they are; they don’t stay close; they’re physical/boisterous etc etc An older lady actually said to me “two boys was my worst nightmare but I’m lucky I got two girls.” Yes, seriously!
I’ve worked on my own issues and am happy with my family but these comments make me so upset and angry.
Do other mums of boys get these comments? Do you mums of girls get other comments? Do you mums of boys that are older feel close to your sons? My fears keep creeping back that they will be hard work while they’re young and then leave me when they’re older!!
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Fed up with negative boy comments
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liney80 · 19/02/2018 11:05
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